When Disrespect Is Not An Option ☕

Coffee Cup Fifteen ☕

This is definitely my "MO" when it comes to negative people and disrespectful people all in the same sentence. I know...everyone in my circle (the family) know I don't sugarcoat my feelings about anything. If you disrespect me (number one) you're going to feel me in every wave, shape or form! What I mean about that is this:  1. Don't talk back when I'm trying to educate (younger generation) about the realities of life in which they know nothing about.  2. Don't ever fix your mouth to cuss at me ever, because...it's a total no no,  if you're a younger person, or an older adult, it makes no difference, because I'm going to show you the respect that I would like to receive in return.  3. Younger people...educate yourselves in respect for the older people who have lived more years than you and has been there and done that.  4. Last but not least...keep your mouth closed if you know what's best for you in the scheme of things, because it's better to do so. Why I'm posting this post is a question for many in thought and concern. So I'm going to briefly give you an example. 

I had this little girl who's no blood relative to my immediate family disrespected me, because I didn't respond to her right away from an invite from only days pass (at that time) to her baby shower. "I finally responded!" She then wrote a message to me that kind of disturbed me. It looked like her response had attitude. So I asked...if she had a problem. She then responded back to me with disrespect and with profanity.

"I thought I seen 'red' at that brief moment." Here's my response to this post. "Just because....and I say just because I don't respond at that brief moment to an invitation to a baby shower, or anything else...common sense, thinking and the facts should of been used at that particular moment in time." I'm very thankful I was invited to this baby shower mentioned in this post. I wished this girl would of asked nicely and tastefully about what took me so long to respond to her baby shower invite. 

Instead...she gave me a not so nice response with profanity and disrespect for her elders. "So my response to her attitude is just." Do not disrespect your elders younger generation. Burning bridges all around you and all over the place will never get you any where in life. It will only make your bed harder when you lay in it every time. Understand who has been there for you more than once, more than twice the number of times you've been alive. 

I hope this will be a lesson to this "little girl" in my post who has to start making her own way in life and growing up. Her choices is total bull crap! She needs to grow up and start finding her way with all the resources that are available to her if she would just Google them. I had to learn it! --And I did it. 

"She will never get anything from me again, because she made the mistake of cussing at me in her message and disrespected me as her elder." That bridge is burned for good!






What do you think about this post? How will you react to the disrespectful little girl in this post? Sound off in an open discussion.